About the Book
Title: Reaching your Addicted Loved One
Author: Victor Torres
Genre: Self-help | Substance abuse & addictions | Drugs
Release date: January 8, 2019
As a teenager, Victor Torres was a gang warlord and heroin addict on New York City’s violent streets. Through the ministry of David Wilkerson and Nicky Cruz, Victor had a life-changing encounter with Jesus Christ and came to realize that God had a purpose for his life. Victor has spent the last forty-five years helping tens of thousands of young men and women find freedom from drug addiction and gang life. Now, he answers your toughest questions about your addicted loved one. Without pulling punches or promising easy answers, Victor provides wisdom and expertise that can lead you toward success.
Some of the questions Victor addresses are…
- How can I know if my loved one has a substance abuse problem?
- How can I tell the difference between helping and enabling?
- What if my loved one refuses to get help?
- When should I call the police?
- What should we look for in a treatment program?
- What can I expect when my loved one comes out of treatment?
- How do I prepare for relapse?
God did not create your loved one to be an addict or a loser. On the contrary, God created him or her for a better life. Although, for the moment, it may seem like you are losing your loved one, they still have a God-given destiny and a purpose. No matter how bad the picture may look now, there is always hope.
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Addiction is a tough topic, and one that many people want to avoid. It’s hard to admit that our loved ones have a problem, and many times we are nervous about how to approach them on it. In my opinion, there isn’t one certain way that is going to work for every single situation, as people react differently to different things. Some people need tough love, some people need a gentle push, and some people just can’t be helped no matter how much we try. I happen to have someone like that in my life right now and it breaks my heart.
Because of this, I was ready to dive into this book and see what different strategies it could offer me. Unfortunately for me personally, it fell flat. But that is just my story. I think the thing I missed the most was scripture. I wanted more from God’s Word. There were a few verse references, but I expected and wanted more.
The author does do a good job at presenting the signs and symptoms of an addict, which a lot of people don’t even know about. I appreciate the time and effort it took for him to share his stories, compile the stories of others, and present them in the pages on this book. I believe that there are people out there who can benefit from this book, and I pray that they do. Addiction is everywhere, and we need to try to help others, with God by our side, find the assistance they need.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. I was not required to write a favorable review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
About the Author
Victor Torres was a junkie, drug-pusher, and warlord in Brooklyn’s meanest streets. Since his conversion, he has ministered Christ to thousands. He and his wife Carmen have traveled to over thirty nations preaching the Good News. Their chief undertaking, however, has been New Life for Youth, which began in 1971 in Richmond, Virginia. This growing work is one of the most respected and largest organizations in the country. Today, New Life for Youth has a ranch in Spotsylvania County, Virginia, which is helping an ever increasing number of hurting young men searching for hope, as well as a home for women with drug-related problems called the Mercy House. Their other resources in the Richmond, Virginia, area include House of Hope, a home for recovering men, and Mercy Moms, which serves women and their children. Victor and Carmen are also the founders and pastors of New Life Outreach International, a fast-growing dynamic church in Richmond, Virginia with over forty nationalities worshiping together. In 2017, his story was made into an award-winning major motion picture, Victor.
Guest Post from Victor
New Life Success Steps
- Pray, pray, and then pray some more. And after that, pray.
- Have faith enough for the both of you. Have faith enough for the whole family if necessary.
- Keep ﬁghting for your addicted loved one until they can do battle for themselves.
- Choose to believe beyond what you can see.
- Picture their future and believe the vision.
- Celebrate your loved one’s freedom—dare to believe!
Healing is yours for the taking. Reach out, ask God for help, and then receive it. Never lose hope that your loved one will be healed. My life, and the lives of so many others, is proof that God can even bring the dead back to life.
Your loved one was made for more than this. Don’t give up!
A Baker’s Perspective, January 1
The Power of Words, January 2
Real World Bible Study, January 3
Reading is My Superpower, January 4 (Interview)
Stephanie’s Life of Determination, January 4
Through the Lens of Scripture, January 5
Artistic Nobody, January 6 (Spotlight)
Mary Hake, January 7
Carpe Diem, January 8
Debbie’s Dusty Deliberations, January 9
Simple Harvest Reads, January 10 (Spotlight)
Janices book reviews, January 11
Bigreadersite, January 12
Margaret Kazmierczak, January 13 (Interview)
Texas Book-aholic, January 14
To celebrate his tour, Victor is giving away a grand prize of a $20 Starbucks gift card!!
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